Our nature is one of suffering, only when we suffer ourselves. But the truth that we suffer ourselves is too painful to bear, so instead we look outwards for things to blame our suffering on and in so doing, turn away from the truth. When we learn to love ourselves, as opposed to suffer ourselves, then we stop looking outward for causes of our happiness and misery, and start looking inward and create our own happiness. This is The Truth. This is how we find God. God is a part of who we are, an image of our own goodness and condemnations.